I deal with this in my job as well. Women will usually shrug off a request for permission from the account owner. Men go ballistic.
Step on your little toes, did we?]]>
So, should I blame that on feminism too?]]>
are you seriously going to tell me that every joint account you’ve opened with your wife you have both had access from the get-go?
Yes. I don’t recall any problem like this happening with a joint account. If it’s truly a joint account with both names on it then either person should have full privileges on the account. If that isn’t happening, then it’s not truly a joint account or it was set up without including both names on the signature card or something.]]>
I’ve always thought it was strange, too.]]>